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Nobody is better placed to help your wedding day along than your chosen wedding photographer. A bold statement, but stay with me.
You’ve paid out a small fortune for other people to look after everything, and you’ll be a little bit pre-occupied of course, what with getting married etc.
The groom will go along with whatever you want, darling. As will dads. Men, huh?
Mums will help a little, enough, or a lot…I’m not going there.
And your friends have come for the party.
Your cake and flowers will be delivered.
The DJ will set up later.
The venue will feed and water you. And the 90 other people you’ve invited.
But not at the church, or on the boat, or even the dancefloor.
Only your wedding photographer will be focused on you through all of it. To record the day’s events, we have to always be there…around…watching. Not in your face, in the background. Experience tells us when to expect things to happen, when to nudge them along and when to stay out of the way. We might take photos of your flowers, your table plans, your decorations, but we will always know where you are and when. Right up until it’s time to leave.
We’ve joked with grooms and best men to calm their nerves.
We’ve told the bride she looks wonderful seconds before she faces the world.
We’ve asked the flower girls to jump on the page boys, just to see what happens.
We’ve filled-up when your dad’s voice cracked during his speech.
We’ve worked out which is your mum and which is your stepmum.
We’ve made friends with your labrador!
We’ve taken you both aside for a few minutes to give you a breather and remind you you’re there for each other.
Oh, and we’ve taken a few photographs too!
Photo courtesey of McLellan Studios
Article courtesey of Steve Holcroft
First things first: location, location, location! Can't move forward until we have a location. Securing the location is my main priority. The ceremony will be held by the water, location T.B.D. There are a few venues I am going to research for the reception. The main criteria is being able to offer food and beverages for eighty people for around $5,000. NO PROBLEM!
To have kids at your event or not to have kids at your event? This can be a tough question to answer. Especially if your family has children in it, or if you have lots of friends that have kids. Either way, there are a lot of reasons why you may or may not want children present for your event.
To start, ask yourself:
-Will having children present add to, or take away from the over all event?
-Will guests you want at the event not be able to attend if they can’t bring their children?
-How will the possible distraction of having children present make you feel?
-Is there a place you can designate at the event site for parents to take loud or unruly children or crying babies?
-Can you afford the added expense of the special measures that will need to be taken to help if so many children attend the event?
If it is going to be a kid friendly affair, you may want to consider creating a kids area. I was reading Zephyr Tents blog and came across a wise solution, creating a designer kids area.
-Designate a kid friendly area and create a cozy atmosphere by using big comfy pillows, low tables, and colorful paper lanterns.
-Have a special table for them covered with butcher paper and put out crayons, games and other fun activities to keep them busy.
-Hire a few nannies from a reputable agency who come prepared with arts & crafts, games, stickers, balloons and more.
-If your event is in a hotel or another place with additional available rooms, consider renting a room just for kids.
-Be sure to have the caterer design a kid-friendly menu and set-up their own special buffet.
If your event will be kid friendly, take care of the children. The parents will get to enjoy the evening talking with adults instead of entertaining their kids and your event will be even more of a success!
Photo courtesy of Trista Lerit